If you are Student and you start developing feelings for opposite sex. It’s ok and normal; It’s experienced by every normal human being. You are not the first one neither the last. The following tips will help you to stand tall amidst this body growth.
Human relationships are not meant for sex rewards but we can use human relationships to help one another, to emotionally support one another and help one another in academics inter alia.
Discern from being near or in possession of pornographic materials or even watching them. Sex begins from head, thus discern from feeding your mind with irrelevant materials.
Occupy your mind; idle mind is devils workshop.you can read novels, newspapers, engage in praise and worship or read your Academic work.
make sure you you lack time to think about evil. Engage in physical exercise; sweat. As an adolescent; you have alot of energy that if not used, you may unconsciously find yourself in anti-social behaviour. Do alot of manual work, jog, walk, engage in any sport you like; you will feel your body refreshed and relaxed.
Most students feel they are old enough and thus their parents, school administrators/ Teachers should not deny them from falling in love. We need to 13note that as students; you are still young depending on parents and by engaging in love tantamounts to producing Children which comes with
responsibility which boy Student may not execute, to girl Student; is not old enough to handle body changes brought by pregnancy and most girls end up dying giving birth because their body systems are not yet ready for birth.
To Boy Student; it’s criminal to play sex with girl below 18 years. It breaks laws of Land which may result into Life Sentence. Boy Student in prison means your dreams have been shattered. The best way is not mix academics with Love. Our Spirituality tells us that it’s sinful to engage in premarital sex. Sex is only consummated in Marriage. Dear Students; Your priority is Academics…After your Academic qualification ; you will enter marriage vocation. Be patient. As Students discern from mixing love with academics. If you dare, you will not make it academically. Love goes with emotions that need mature mind and some times Students who have engaged in early love have ended up being losers. To a student; his or her priority is Academics to achieve his/her dreams.
Life is Choice…make right choices. HIV / AIDS is still around and sex abuse brings it to you. If you are HIV positive live responsibly, if HIV negative – please maintain your status.